Passed away suddenly at his home on Saturday, December 30, 2023 at the age of 61. Randy will be dearly missed by his loving mother Myrna Holly, brother and sister, Raymond Paterson, and Jackie and Matt Postill. Nieces and nephews, James Paterson, Sean and Stephanie Paterson, and Shannon and Kevin Ford and 6 great-nieces and nephews. His feline companion Shelley. Also by his best friends Joe, Rob and Cliff who got together weekly at Randy’s place to play Risk for over 30 years. Fondly remembered by his friend, Deb and others. Predeceased by his brother Phillip Trotier (2004). Randy was proud to have served his country in the Canadian Armed Forces for over 7 years. He loved listening to music, playing games, watching movies, and cheering on his Toronto Maple Leafs. He was always thinking of others and his nieces and nephews meant the world to him. Myrna and Randy shared a special bond as mother and son that he cherished greatly. He also loved swimming at his sister’s and enjoying family BBQ’s. Randy loved being together with his family, exclaiming this year that “this was the best Christmas ever”.
Cremation has taken place. A public celebration of Randy’s life will be held at the Haskett Funeral Home, 456 Main Street South, Exeter on Monday, January 8th from 1-3 PM. A private family interment will take place at a later date in the Exeter Cemetery.
Donations to Heart & Stroke or CMHA would be appreciated by the family.
Joeeph Ethier
Our Sincere Condolences Raymond and family, Rest in Peace Randy, God be with you .
Bob.
James Paterson
Really going to miss you uncle Randy 😢, I’m still in shock and in disbelief, I was thankful to have you as my uncle and the times we had together ❤, I never forget driving you home from Oshawa talking and listening to music, it’s one of my favorite memories,
You’re always going to be in my heart ❤, You were and will be loved and remembered forever for your love and kindness 😊
Miss you uncle Randy.
Lorri Lucan
Myrna and family…
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. Randy was a special individual who would do anything for anybody. RIP – no more suffering or pain.
Mark Heimrich
Jackie & Matt & family;
Our sincere condolences in the loss of Randy.
Mark & Julie Heimrich
Carol Stuckless
Dear Myrna, Jackie, Matt, Raymond and Family. We were so shocked and sadden to hear of Randy’s passing… you know I’m thinking of you and wish I could be there. Love and Hugs Carol and Donny
Marlene and Dave Mitton
Jackie, Matt, Shannon, Kevin and families
so sorry to hear of the sudden passing of Randy. Thinking of everyone at this sad and difficult time
Hugs to all With our deepest sympathy……Marlene and Dave Mitton
Rhonda Rosen
Ray, I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. My deepest condolences to you & your family.
Natacha
To Myrna and family,
I was fortunate to meet Randy. He was a friendly person. I remember his love for music, playing board games and loved his family. My sincere condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family during this difficult time.
Natacha and family
Luann Keelan
To Myrna and Family, my deepest condolences to all of you on the passing of Randy. I know you will miss him dearly. Take Care.
Todd Stephan
Thoughts and Prayer’s and my deepest condolences to Myrna and the Paterson families. Sad to see You go Randy. I will see you on the other side “God speed” home
George and Sue Wilson
Myrna, Jackie and Matt and families, we are sorry to hear of your son, brother’s passing. Cherish your precious memories. Hold them close to your heart. Hugs and prayers, George and Sue Wilson
Allan Greenslade
Sure gonna miss you my friend……We shared many great times and even more laughs……My sincere condolences to your family…We will continue the Risk tradition and golf as well……..Good-bye for not and never forgotten.
Raymond Paterson
To my Dear Brother Randy..
Having grown up living together as kids..and then going on different paths in life..
We shared our same passion for Hockey, music and movies..
I’m going to miss having you come and stay with me in Oshawa..we would go to live Hockey games and concerts!
I’m going to miss our talks about life and everything..
You will live forever in my heart..
Love you little brother 💙
Raymond Paterson
To my Dear brother having grown up in the same house as kids and then going on different paths..
We shared the love of the same music and hockey and Movies..I’m going to miss having you spend time with me here in Oshawa..
Going to live hockey games and concerts.. and talks about life..
You will live forever in my heart..
Love Ray…
Josh Heywood
Myrna and family
I am very sorry to hear of Randy’s passing. Hold onto your cherished memories and be glad for the time together until you meet again. My condolences to all.
Josh Heywood
Dianna
Ray and family, so sorry to hear about your brother’s passing. Keep your memories together close to your heart and they will last forever plus a day.
Veronica Mayer
My condolences to Ray and all the Family.
So sorry for your loss.
Sending hugs and prayers during this time.
Susan Mitchell (Fyfe)
It is so very sad to hear of Randy’s passing. I know he will be missed terribly. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Vicki Kemp
I’m so sorry for your loss Ray & family. Please accept my sincere condolences 💕
Evelyn Vincent
Myrna and family
Sincere sympathy in your great loss. Praying that the good memories will help bring peace and comfort.
Wilma and Derrick Misner
Dear Aunt Myrna , Jackie, Matt, Raymond and families. We were shocked and saddened to hear of Randy’s passing. Sending our love and condolences…
Goodbyes are not forever.
Goodbyes are not the end.
They simply mean I’ll miss you
Until we meet again. Love Derrick and Wilma
John Alexander
To the friends and relatives of Randy , I’m so sorry to hear of your lose , my prayers are with you all !
Brian Robb
Only met him a couple of times with his brother Ray at Lakeview park Oshawa.Such a friendly guy.
Sue Riley
Jackie & Matt: Thinking of you during this difficult time.
Shawn moody
Really going to miss our risk games Randy. You were a great guy and I am glad for the times we had.
My condolences to the family.
Len Ellis
I send my sincere condolences during this time of deep sorrow. The Bible promises that your loved one will live again on a beautiful paradise earth when death will be no more. (John 5:28, 29; Revelation 21:4)
Daryl
Sorry for your loss..Randy will be missed…he was a good guy
Tonya Harney
Sending love and strength during this very hard time. With sincere condolences.