Paul passed away peacefully surrounded by his family at Rotary Hospice, Stratford on Friday, August 16, 2024 at the age of 75. Cherished husband of Maria Nestman for 17 years. Proud father of Joe Nestman, Tom Nestman (Kendall), Frank Carreiro (Crystal), Sandi Carreiro, and Monica Gonsalves (Kieron). Adored grandpa of Welland Nestman, Fennwick Nestman, Victoria Byrne (Blake), Catarina Carreiro (Justin), Samuel Botelho, and Miguel Gonsalves and great-grandfather of Benjamin Aucoin, William Byrne, and WillowByrne. Dear brother and brother-in-law of Ann and Jim Bartlett, Joan and Dan Beninger, Jane and Ray Contois, the late Amy and the late Jerry Dusckocy.
Visitation will be held at Haskett Funeral Home, 456 Main Street South, EXETER on Monday from 4 – 6 PM, where Paul’s funeral service will be held on Tuesday, August 20th at 11 AM with Rev. Ken Whiting officiating. Interment Egmondville Cemetery.
Donations to Rotary Hospice Stratford Perth would be appreciated by the family.
Brian and Jackie Hymers
Oh Maria, we were so deeply saddened by this news. Paul was just such a great fellow, always so friendly, outgoing and welcoming.
Jackie remembers the first time that she met you both at the prep for the turkey dinner while preparing the dressing at the church. Paul hollered over “there’s a seat right here”. Paul will be deeply missed not only around your family’s table but also around the church’s table as well.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. May the love of God and His peace surround you in easing your grief.
Please, know that you are loved by many.
Carolanne Doig
Maria and families,
Just heard of Paul’s passing and want to let you know how sorry I am to learn this news. Always positive, always a smile …I remember your wedding at the golf course and I am so so sad at this news.
Jamie Fischer
My family spent a lot of time with Paul and his family during the 80’s, 90’s and the early 2000s. Paul was my brothers godfather. He always had a smile, and always assisted my dad whenever he required a partner for whatever project he was building. I was shocked to hear the news of his passing, but will always cherish the memories that I hold
Aleck and Family
Maria and Family,
I want to extend my heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this profoundly difficult time. The loss of Paul is a deep sorrow that resonates with all who knew him. He was not only a great friend but also a remarkable individual whose kindness, honesty, and compassion left an indelible mark on everyone he encountered.
Paul had a unique ability to brighten the lives of those around him. His genuine warmth and unwavering support were a source of comfort to many, and his presence will be sorely missed in our lives. As we remember him, let us hold on to the cherished memories we shared—the laughter, the conversations, and the moments of joy that defined our time together.
May these memories provide you with solace and peace in the days ahead. It is in these moments that we can find the strength to honour his legacy and carry his spirit with us.
With deepest sympathy,
Wayne and Marie Mont
Maria and Family, our hearts are with you as you say goodbye to Paul for the last time. Wish we could have been there for the service but were not able to get there because of the distance. You know how much he meant to Wayne and I. Even though he is gone from this earth, he lives on in our hearts and will always be remembered as one of the best friends we could ask for.
We send our deepest sympathy to all of you with warm hugs and LOVE!
RIP Paul Nestman!
Michelle Murray - twins lawn care
Maria, such shock to hear of Paul s passing!!! Such a warm and friendly soul. We met many years ago when you first moved to town and needed help with the flower beds but every time we d happened to cross paths, Paul always stopped for a visit to catch up. Truly saddened to read this. Hugs to you Maria and family
John and Michelle Wilson
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Paul was a dear man and will be missed.
Linda Kistner
Dear Maria and family,
Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of your husband and father.
We had the privilege of meeting and getting to know Paul through pickleball. He always had that look of innocence mixed with mischievousness when he would spin the ball or hit it past us. He was always fun to play! We also had great chats. They revealed his pride in his family and his life experiences. He was a gentle soul and will be greatly missed. Bob and Linda Kistner
Adam & KellyAnn Keys
We are so sorry for your loss. He was such a great neighbour. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Joe Nestman
Dad I love you and you are my hero
Thank you all for your kind words
Steve Darling
My condolences on the loss of a great person gone to the great motorcycle ride in the sky
Brandy Douglas (Sajkowski)
Treasure your memories and keep them close to your hearts aways. Paul was my godfather, small world Monica.💕
My deepest condolences.
Garry & Irene Finlayson
Thinking of you at this sad time Maria.
Marg Dale
My Dear friend and Bro. Love you and Maria to bits. My heart is broken, but I know you rest in peace. Maria, a new journey will begin. Please know I am here for you.
Paul Junop
Maria and family, you have my condolences on the death of Paul. We worked together at Downsview Detachment during the 1970’s and were room mates for my 5 years on the Golden Helmets when we travelled the Province. We and our brothers in the OPP had so much fun, laughter and excitement together during those years on the ride. Paul had a unique laugh. I have often thought of my old room mate in the last number of years as so many of our comrades have passed away. May you cherish all your good memories with Paul and your Family
Paul Junop
Jack and Mary Helen McLachlan
Sending caring thoughts of sympathy to Maria and families as you grieve the loss of Paul. We always enjoyed his pleasant disposition, his interesting stories and his willingness to help wherever needed. He will be missed at church and in the community but his spirit will remain through the many memories left behind. May memories of happy times spent with Paul help all of you through these difficult days and months ahead.
Tim Cooper
I worked with Paul at Guelph Detachment of the OPP in the 80’s and 90’s eventually as his shift Sergeant. Paul could always be relied on to boost the shifts stats for speeders and seat belt violators. He loved riding the Harley and enjoyed being part of the Golden Helmets. Rest in Peace brother.
Ted Green
My sincere sympathies to Maria and family in the recent loss of your husband and father, Paul. We worked together in Guelph for several years.
Rosa Small
To my dearest sister Maria and family .
I was very saddened to hear of Paul’s passing.
He was such a sweet , loving , and kind man who loved his family above everything else .maria my prayers are with you and you family . I pray that God gives you the strength you need at this very hard time you are facing .
Because you and Paul shared a special kind of love , treasure all the beautiful memories you shared with Paul .
All my love to you and family .
Rosa Maria Small
Bill Howell
I was a member of the Auxiliary OPP and rode with Paul many times. I have a lot of good memories working with Paul. My condolences to Paul’s wife and family. He will be missed.
Ruth Smith
Maria and family.
So sorry to hear this sad news.
Paul will be very much missed at EGmondville UNited.
Thinking of you
Ruth Smith.
Luis Alves
Dear Maria,
I was so sad to hear that Paul has passed away. I enjoyed working with him at Linamar transportation and he was a true gentleman. A true loss.
If there is anything that you need please don’t hesitate to reach out to me.
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Connie Marion
Sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. I met him at pickleball where he was a hoot; full of stories, fun, and helped anyone figure out the game. He will be missed. Sending happy thoughts & prayers to the family at this sad time.
John and Karen Taylor
Paul was such a kind and friendly neighbour. Thinking of Maria and Family.
Glen & Linda
Dear Maria and family, Our deepest condolences to all in your loss of Paul. He was always quick with a smile, a chat or to offer a hand at church functions. We will miss his presence there. Cherish your memories and sending you strength,
Glen and Linda McLachlan
Eileen Greidanus
Maria and family
I am so very sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. He was an amazing man and will be missed by everyone who knew him .
sending hugs and all my sympathy
Eric & Wendy Bailes
Maria and family: We are saddened at the thought of Paul’s passing he was an extremely friendly man, and we could see how much he cherished Maria, May your happy memories of him last a lifetime and sustain you through this very difficult time. Know that others feel your pain, sending hugs to you all.
RIP beautiful man. Eric & Wendy Bailes.
Susan Garrick
Dear Maria and family. I was saddened to read about Paul’s passing. He was such a vibrant and kind man who always had a smile and a friendly word. He was so kind to my dad when dad walked by your place on his walks. The love he held for and your family ran deeply. I know his spirit will be with you always. May he fly high with the angels and rest in Gods eternal love.
Susan Garrick
Terry Demerse
I rode with Paul on the Golden Helmets for several years. A friend and brother on the OPP. My condolences to Paul’s family. Rest
In Peace Nessie.
Ryan
Paul NESTMAN, A true kind soul .
I did a highschool co-op at Guelph OPP when I was 18. I am almost 50 now . Paul took the time to take me under his wing and help introduce me to police work . A true class act .
You will be missed Paul .
My condolences to your family .
Jeanette Connolly
My sincere condolences to Paul’s family. I always enjoyed our many chats and laughs. Rest in sweet peace Paul and may you bask in the glory of Gods eternal love.
Gary Hamilton
Paul and I worked together in old number 5 district and also at Grand Bend summer detachment in the early 70’s. We were always together and had so many good times together on and off the job.. I am sure Paul will be missed by so many My sincere condolences to Paul’s entire family.
Brian and Shelley McGavin
Maria and Family
Our sincere sympathy is extended to you as you mourn Paul. He was such a wonderful person and we thank both Paul and Maria for being great neighbours to Dad.
May you find comfort in knowing that you are held in our hearts at this very sad time.
Clarinda Barreira
É com profundo pesar que soube da triste notícia. Deixo um abraço apertado a toda a família. Muita força!
Bruce Haselgrove
Our condolences to Paul’s family. We have known Paul for about 6 years playing shuffleboard at Seaforth community center. He was easy to talk to,friendly, had interesting stories to tell,fun competitor, and always available and willing to help out. We will miss him a lot. Carol and Bruce Haselgrove
Judy and Peter Jovanovich
Our sincere condolences Maria and family. We met Paul at pickle ball where he had great delight in spinning the ball so we couldn’t return it! It was always fun to play with him.
Mark&Kathy Smith
We are so sorry to hear about Paul’s passing thinking of you Maria and family you are in our thoughts and prayers.
R.I.P. Paul….With sympathy Mark &Kathy
Wayne Bolster
So sorry to read of Paul passing my wife Marg baby sat when he was born in Walkerton and I worked with him in Guelph Rest in Peace Paul
Shelley Frey
Our thoughts are with the entire family at this time. As we got to know Paul through the pickelball family in Seaforth. He was a fierce competitor with a kind smile on his face at all times. His passion for his family were beyond words. Life is so precious! Treasure your memories.
David & Shelley Frey
Dianne McGrath
My condolences to Paul’s family as you grieve the loss of your beloved husband, father and grandfather. . I enjoyed partnering with Paul during pickleball as well as his kind and friendly demeanor off the court. My thoughts are with you.
Jacquelyne Mitchell
Maria and Family my sincere condolence May Paul rest in peace My thoughts and prayers are with you Sincerely Jacquelyne Mitchell
Ann Preszcator
Dear Maria and Family
I am a former neighbour of Fern McClure
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.
Audrey O’Rourke
Maria and family, My condolences to you on Paul’s passing. I met him through shuffleboard and he was always such a pleasant man. May your memories help you through the difficult days ahead.
Doug & Lori Hildebrand
Our sincere condolences Maria and family.
Pat Wallace
Maria and family , I was very sorry to hear about Paul , my deepest sympathy to all of you . Pat Wallace
Glen and Deb Haney
Maria and family.
Our sincerest sympathies for your loss of Paul.
Hold your memories near. Praying for you all.
Glen and Deb
Keith Taylor
condolences to Paul’s family he will be missed. I shared many experiences with Paul during my 13 year on the Golden Helmets and during his posting at Guelph.
Cheryl Sajkowski
Sending you strength today and peace in all the days ahead.
Cheryl Sajkowski
Rick & Ann LeBeau
Our hearts go out to Maria and families with the passing of our friend we met
thru pickleball, we send our sincere condolences.
RIP Paul
Rick & Ann LeBeau
frank chipman
Maria and family-sorry and saddened to learn of Paul’s passing. We joined the Force at the same time (1970) and resided together in Rexdale for a period of time while posted to 5 District. We have kept in touch for the past 54 years and I have fond memories of times spent over the years which I shared with him a few weeks ago. A loss of a dear friend.