Passed away suddenIy at Seaforth Community HospitaI on Friday, August 23, 2013. Dean Joseph Gregory Haycock of RR#4 Seaforth, at the age of 22.
Ioving son of Terry Haycock (DarIene Carnochan) of RR#4 Seaforth and Jan Hughes-Arsenov (John Arsenov, step father) of the GTA. Cherished brother of Tonya te Brinke of Seaforth, Ben McCaffery (Sarah Rieck) of Stratford, Jeff McCaffery of Ottawa, Jordan AIIen of Stratford, Robyn Haycock (Andrew Iavoie) of Barrie and CaIIysta Arsenov of the GTA. Dean wiII be dearIy missed by many aunts, uncIes, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.
Visitation wiII be heId at McGlynn FamiIy FuneraI Home, 87 Goderich St. W., Seaforth, 519-527-1390, on Monday, August 26, 2013 from 11 am untiI the time of Deans funeraI service to ceIebrate his Iife at 2 pm. Cremation to foIIow. Pastor Stephen HiIdebrand officiating.
In Iieu of fIowers, memoriaI donations to the Canadian Cancer Society wouId be appreciated and can be made at the funeraI home or by visiting Deans memoriaI at www.mcglynnfamiIyfuneraIhome.com
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Jan Hughes-Arsenov
My dearest Dean, taken away far too soon, may the angels watch over you Dean until we meet once again.
Love
Mom Jan
Stepdad John
Jan Hughes-Arsenov
Dearest Dean, Today marks 5yrs since you left us and we are still grieving our loss of you. May God bless you and hope you are dancing with the angels over head and looking down to see us. Some day we will meet you again and until then, we all just want to say how much we love you now and always.
Mom xoxoxo
Jan (Mom)
“Life is a Train Ride”
At birth, we boarded the train and met our parents, and we believe they will always travel on our side. However, at some station our parents will step down from the train, leaving us on this journey alone. As time goes by, other people will board the train; and they will be significant i.e. our siblings, friends, children, and even the love of your life. Many will step down and leave a permanent vacuum. Others will go so unnoticed that we don&&single&&t realize that they vacated their seats. This train ride will be full of joy, sorrow, fantasy, expectations, hellos, goodbyes, and farewells. Success consists of having a good relationship with all passengers requiring that we give the best of ourselves.
The mystery to everyone is: We do not know at which station we ourselves will step down. So, we must live in the best way, love, forgive, and offer the best of who we are. It is important to do this because when the time comes for us to step down and leave our seat empty we should leave behind beautiful memories for those who will continue to travel on the train of life.
I wish you a joyful journey on the train of life. Reap success and give lots of love. More importantly, thank God for the journey. Lastly, I thank you for being one of the passengers on my train.
For you Dean and miss you so very much xoxoxo
Jan Hughes
A Tribute To My Son Dean and Not a Day goes by that I don&&single&&t miss you xoxoxo Mom
As I sit in Heaven
And watch you every day
I try to let you know with signs,
I never went away.
I hear you when your laughing and watch you while you sleep.
I even place my arms around you, to calm you as you weep.
I see you wish the days away,
Begging to have me home.
So I try to send you signs
So you know your not alone.
Don&&single&&t feel guilty that you have
Life that was denied to me
Heaven is truly beautiful
Just you wait and see.
So live your life, laugh again
Enjoy yourself, be free.
Then I know, with every breath you take,
You&&single&&ll be taking one for me.
This is for you Dean and miss you each and every day with tears and one day we will meet again and dance together with all of our relatives and be happy once again. Love always Mom xoxoxoxo
Mom
Hi again my sweet baby boy Dean and today would have been your birthday, but God took you home, so that you would not be in pain and not have to be in this world but to look down and know that we have never ever have forgotten you, so today we celebrate your birthday and sending love and kisses to you where ever you are and know that you are watching down over your little sister, Robyn and her new baby girl, Mila. God Bless you Dean until the day we meet again and tears will never cease until i hold you in my arms again. Love always Mom and John and Callysta xoxoxoxo
Jan
Dearest Dean, once again another year has passed and now its Christmas 2015. We know that you are looking down over us and watching everything that is going on. Our hearts break every time we think of you being here on earth with us, but know only God knows the reason you are up above the sky line and not here. We want to wish you a very Merry Christmas and remember that Jesus was born in a manager on this holy day to bring peace and joy to all. We miss you more and more and in our hearts only know that you are gone and do not know why you left us so soon, not knowing the truth about everything, Have a blessed Christmas in the arms of the Lord and know one day we will meet you and rejoice together again.
Love always, Mom, John, Callysta xoxo
Jan (Mom)
Dearest Dean,
Another year has passed by and Robyn, John and I miss you so very much. Every day I think of you and wonder what you would have been doing if here with us.
Our hearts are so very heavy knowing another year on the 23rd is coming up and still as I think of you, I have tears upon tears that no one will know who much I miss my son and my baby boy.
Know that things are now coming to light and your sister Robyn knows the truth now and you do know from where you are.
We are watching over your baby sister as the year is coming around again. Robyn grieves every day at the loss of you, but know you will are watching down knowing everything now and we all love you dearly.
My God Bless you and keep you safe in his arms until we all meet again.
Love always Mom, Robyn, John and Callysta xoxoxo
Mom
Dearest Dean,
Happy July 4th, 2015 two years after you are gone and hoping you are looking down watching your baby sister and knowing how much Robyn and I miss you.
We remember you when we would sit out by the fire pit and have fireworks for the holiday.
You loved the sparkles and watching the fire works go off.
You loved marshmallows and hot dogs.
Robyn and I miss you so much and think about you each and every day. God Bless you honey and hope you are with the angels in a better place with no pain and happy.
Love Mom and Robyn xo
Mom
Today we remember your birthday like it was when you were born, 24 precious years ago. You were taken away too soon, but God had other plans for you. You are now but a memory with pictures to treasure in our hearts and know one day we will meet again. Happy Birthday Dean. Love always, Mom, John and Callysta xoxo
Jan
Dearest Dean.
This day we honor you, as another year has passed without you in everyones life and still hurt that you are gone.
Our memories of you on Christmas Day will never be forgotten and will always be treasured as we love you dearly in life and now in the hands of God. You were given to me as a precious baby to raise and love and to see you grow up to a perfect gentleman, but God had another plan for you, and now you sit along with the angels in the presence of God and our memories are all that we have until we meet you again in the heavens above.
Loving and missing you always.
Mom xo
Ryan Mundy
Hi Jan and your EX. Wow I didn&&single&&t know that your little boy, Dean was in an accident and you were one special student in our classes at the the School when we went for our Paralegal studies.
My deepest condolences to you and your EX as I know how much you loved your children, as we spoke every day at school about them and couldn&&single&&t believe they were not with you, as you are a very special person and I know you must have been an awesome Mom as I seen you with your daughter, Callysta at the Courts and again my respects in the passing of your son. I know how much you missed them and one day you will be able to meet your son, Dean again and tell him the truth about everything and you know fully what I mean, so for now RIP DEAN, you were a very special son to your Mom and always be.
Jan (Mom)
My dearest son, Dean, today is the 1st anniversary of your passing and still it feels like today and we all miss you so badly and still the tears fall and every picture I look at reminds me of so many happier times when we were all together and playing. I hope your at peace and have all your relatives around you to keep you company and the angels have a very very smart young man there to make everyone laugh. RIP Dean until the day we all meet you again. Say hi to Grandma and Grandpa and tell them I miss them too honey.
Love always,
Mom xoxoxoxoxoxo
Mom
My dear darling Dean, wishing you were here as the summer is just around the corner and beautiful birds singing at the top of their lungs and flowers just starting to bloom and stretching into the air asking for rain to help them grow up. Dean, I know you loved the nature and birds, cats, dogs, horses and everything you could go out to when we lived in Staffa and you used to chase the geese around the trailer and loved to get them hissing, as they used to get very upset with you, however you would always try and help your daddy and now all I can see is your beautiful face and remember my little boy.. Please watch over your little sister, as she is so lost without you and we all miss you so very much. May God look over you and at least now you are out of all pain and no more sorrows,,xoxo love from all of us Mom, John, Robyn and Callysta
Mom
My dearest, dearest Dean, Mom wishes you were here for Mothers Day and know you are looking down, knowing everyone misses and loves you honey. I remember when you were little and loved to look for the Easter eggs after Sunday School and were so good at finding them, and your little sister would cry as she was a step behind you. Always and Always missing you xoxoxo This is our first Easter with out your beautiful smile to light up the room. xoxox
Jan
My dearest Dean,
Mommy writing to wish that you were here to say Happy Birthday to you and you should never had been gone as you should not have been on your motorcycle as you had promised your Aunt Wendy one week prior to you going out on your bike as you had, had an accident in the first week of August and hurt your arm and ankle and had stated you were not going to go on your bike until they healed and then out of the blue, you up and went on the bike and now we do not have you here to wish you a wonderful birthday that should have been on your 23rd special day, so with this, my heart is crying in pain and sorrow at losing my precious little boy to such a terrible accident. May you look down and see how many relatives and friends and people miss you so very much and the pain will never go away. I look at your photos each and every day and wonder what you would have become, if God had let you still a little longer. May you now at least rest in peace and know that no one can ever hurt you ever again and with all my tears flowing down my face, here is our wish for your special day and you can look down and know how dearly you are missed…..Love always from Mommy, John, and Callysta xoxoxoxo
Mom
My dearest darling baby boy, Dean, wishing you were here for New Years and watched everyone that passed on this year, 2013 and tears are rolling down my face, just wishing you were never taken away, as I miss you so very much and tonight is New Years Eve and it is not the same with you gone. My heart aches as I watch pictures of you and thanking everyone that sent their condolences as it means so much to me and I am sure it means everything to Deans Daddy and wish things had been completely different, so with this honey, 2014 looms ahead and hope and pray, you are watching down over everyone, knowing how much we love and will always love you. Forever in my heart, my soul and on my mind each and every day. xoxoxo Mom
Jan
Merry Christmas Dean xoxoxo
My darling son, Dean, now its Christmas time and wish you were here, but I know you are somewhere looking down from overhead watching the people go to and far, gathering with family for the day of the birth of the dear Jesus and remember how we all went to the Christmas Eve service and gave thanks for all we had and miss you more than anyone will ever know, as my darling son should be here and not gone. Honey you know by now I received your report from London, which more than ever just wish so much you had been with us celebrating Christmas, so with this, we send out precious son our love and blessings at this special time of year and know that someone higher wanted you for something special and until we meet again, God Bless and always will remember your beautiful loving smile and your presence is never far away from us. xoxoxoxo From your mom and family out this way……….
Jan
My dearest Dean, this is just from Mommy and its almost Christmas time and I remember when you had your very first Christmas and you had pneumonia and were in the hospital in Stratford and had to have a topper put on your crib, as you would climb over the rails after Mommy and Daddy left the hospital from visiting you. As you grew up, we used to go to the Christmas Eve service at Bethal Pentecostal Church in Stratford and you loved Christmas and all the lights as Daddy would drive around and show you all the Christmas lights bright and glowing. I feel like I lost you many years ago and now have lost you again, but have so many dreams of you and wish you were here on this earth to enjoy the holidays again with all of us. May you look down over all of us and be reminded of how much we love and miss you so very much and hope you are singing with the angels at this beautiful time of the year. Loving you each and every day and never out of our hearts as we talk about you every day and it hurts so much, but will meet you one day again and rejoice with everyone above us looking down. Merry Christmas Dean and God be with everyone at this time of year..xoxoxo Mom
Jan Hughes (MOM)
My dearest Dean, 5 weeks have now gone by and still the tears are flowing. Your baby sister misses you so very much and every night, sends kisses to the stars above to reach you with the angels high above. We will always have you beside us and walking with us in spirit, You will never be forgotten and soon the snow will fly and the snow angels will have your presence in the fields and the air,. We love you dearly and miss you so very much and words will never be able to replace the beautiful smile you had. Love from you family, John,(step-dad) Mom, Robyn, Callysta and Andrew xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Jan Hughes-Arsenov (MOM)
My dearest Dean, a week has floated by and still my heart is full of pain and tears fill my eyes and I miss you so very much. You were taken by God to sit with the angels over head and to watch over the rest of our family. Each and every day I cannot stop thinking about you and the way you were when first born and snuggled up to mommy and didn&&single&&t want to leave my lap as you were mommies baby and you always wanted Moms attention in all you did. I remember you contacting me on the computer to chat with me from school and when I asked if you knew you were not supposed to do this, you said, “Your my Mom and i will talk to you, if I want too”. Honey as the days go by I will NEVER EVER have a moment without thinking of my silver headed little boy and the last picture I have of you which you looked like my little boy once again. May God keep you in his arms and the angels sing their voices of another one taken home to be with God…..xoxoxo Love always and missing you terribly Mom xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Leo and Sharon Medd
Terry and Darlene, We are so sorry for you loss, it just seams like yesterday you were at our place with the kids, it is unbelievable time, and our children are not to go first every, our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Leo and Sharon
Rick Maclean&Lori Hillman
Sorry to hear about the loss of your son Terry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Darlene and Family.Rick and Lori
Ken Susan(Harburn) Melissa Pushelberg
To the Haycock and Allen families our deepest condolences to you all for your loss Melissa was a good friend of Dean&&single&&s through high school and I grew up with the Allen family you are all in our thoughts and prayers you have a very special angel watching over you all
Joanne Dow and family
Dear Frank, We were shocked and very saddened to hear of the loss of your son, Dean. Our sympathy and prayers are with you and your family at this time. Your cousin Joanne.
Stuart and Fran Dow
Frank and Family; so sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your son. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers and accept our sincere condolences. Your cousin Stuart.
Brenda and Phil Muggleton
Jeff and your family: we are so saddened to hear the news of Dean&&single&&s passing and send our deepest sympathy to you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Claudine Murphy
Our sincere sympathies to you Frank (Terry). You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Kathy (Doupe) and Jim Stamos
Our sincere sympathy to you Frank and all your family on the loss of your son. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim & Kathy
Kirkey Family
Uncle Frank and family,
We send all our prayers and condolences. He was such a smart and amazing boy. He will be missed very much.
All my love, your cousin Jaimie Kirkey
Ron And Pat Moore
Although we just met in St.Marys not long ago we send nour deepest sympathies to all of you family Our hearts and prayers are with you
kodiee & Jeff
our thoughts & prayers go out to Dean&&single&&s family. we are very sorry for the passing of Dean. You will be missed.
Mason family
we were sad to hear of Dean&&single&&s passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. with deepest sympathy and sincere condolences … Mark, Liz, Aaron, Alannah and Morgan Mason
Jack & Wilma Butson
We are shocked to hear of Dean&&single&&s passing and send out sincere condolences to the family, Aunt Wilma, Uncle Jack, Rae, Keith, Jeff, Jim and families
Nola Dow
Terry and family, I am so sorry for your loss, and sorry that I can&&single&&t be there to give you a hug in person. I send you my love and prayers. Your cousin, Nola.
Jack & Wilma Butson
We are shocked to hear of Dean&&single&&s passing and send out sincere condolences to the family, Aunt Wilma, Uncle Jack, Rae, Keith, Jeff, Jim and families
sharina macpherson snieder
you will truly be missed. our sincere condolences to your family
Jean(Doupe) and Bob Moir
Dear Frank and Family,
Please know that we are thinking of you at this very sad time and send all the family our deepest condolences. Frank and Robyn I am glad to have been able to speak to you briefly yesterday and am sorry I am so far away and cannot attend the funeral.
It sounds like Dean had a wonderful spirit and know you will miss him greatly. I hope all your wonderful memories will help you through these difficult days.
Love Jean & Bob
Vicki Scott
Thinking of you and your family at this very sad time. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Joanne Jewitt and Frank Gregg
So sorry for your loss. Such a tragedy at such a young age. I remember talking with Dean about a year ago, and he seemed to have finally figured things out! Unable to make a connection on Monday but I will certainly be thinking about you at this difficult time.
Linda and Phillip
we are so sorry for this devastating loss.we didn&&single&&t get to know Dean but I&&single&&m sure he was a wonderful joy in your life.Know our thoughts and prayers are with you.Linda,Phillip,and all your extended family.
Pat and Laverne{Pork} Wallace
We were very sorry to hear about Dean.Please except our deepest sympathy.Our thoughts are with you in this time of sorrow
Gordon & Laura Hoggart
Please accept our sincere condolence on the tragic loss of your son Dean. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Mom and Step Dad, John
It is now over 3 months and still grieving our loss of you, Dean as you are never out of our minds and again wish so much that you were here today as everyone needed you and you left so soon and only God knows why. Our hearts and souls are filled with tears knowing that you are gone, but in our hearts we also know that one day, we will be there with you once again and singing with the angels and rejoicing in seeing each other again and to you on this day, we give thanks for the time you had on this earth and may you be lighting up the skies with you joy and beautiful smile. God Bless and we again send our heart filled love and kisses from all of us now and always.xoxoxoxo Mom and John Step Dad