![GRAY: James “Jim” Alexander of Ilderton, formerly of London GRAY: James “Jim” Alexander of Ilderton, formerly of London](https://www.haskettfh.com/wp-content/uploads/Gray-Jim-Main-1-W300.jpg)
Passed away peacefully, surrounded by family, at Strathroy Middlesex General Hospital on Wednesday, June 12, 2024 at the age of 82. Loving and beloved husband of Jean (Duncan) Gray for 58 years. Cherished dad of Stephen Gray. Dear brother of Jane O’Connor and brother-in-law of Marilyn Alger, Kathy and Robert Morlock and Heather Duncan. Fondly remembered by his many nieces, nephews and cousins. Predeceased by his parents, Malcolm and Nola (Buckingham) Gray, parents in-law, Frances (Sommerford) and Alister Duncan, brothers-in-law Alister Duncan, Jim Heffernan, Robert “Bobby” Duncan and Robert Alger and sister-in-law Teresa “Pat” Heffernan.
Cremation has taken place. A private, graveside service will be held at Littlewood Cemetery at a later date.
The family would like to extend sincere thanks to the staff at Sprucedale Care Centre and Strathroy Middlesex General Hospital for their care of Jim.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you consider memorial donations to the Heart and Stroke Foundation or a charity of your choice.
Jane Collins
Dear Jean…our sincere condolences to you and your family. Wish we had the opportunity to get to know Jim better before his health issues moved him to Strathroy. Thoughts and prayers, Jane Collins your next door neighbour, and Les Tischler
Julie Charbonneau
Jim and Jean were wonderful neighbours “on the other side of the fence” when we all lived on Finch Crescent in London. We enjoyed our visits to Ilderton shortly after they moved. Jean, my sincerest condolences to you. You were an incredible caring and loving wife to Jim.
Julie Charbonneau
Cliff & Ruth Dickie
So sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. Cherish all those memories both of you had throughout the years.
Bonnie Wilton
My condolences to you Jean and Stephen and the rest of the family on the passing of a wonderful man. I always remember travelling with Jim to optimist bingos in London.
Brenda Dowling
Jean,
So sorry to hear of the passing of Jim. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Betty Donaldson
Dear Jean
So sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. Take care of yourself during this stressful time.
J&R Vandertuin
Dear Jean& Stephen,
We were so sorry to hear about Jim’s passing. We have many fond memories of our times together on Finch Cres. May you both draw comfort from a vast store of cherished memories as you and your family cope with this sad loss.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Joan& Rick
Sandra Demers
So Sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. My deepest condolences go out to you and your family
Norma Marten
Dear Jean and Stephen,
Jim was a gentle and kind man who persevered through all his health challenges, especially these past few years. He is finally at peace now, knowing he was deeply loved by you and that he will be missed.
My sincerest condolences to both of you.
Mike Cambridge
My condolences you Jean and family on the passing of your husband /father he will be deeply missed
Dr.Reverend Kurtis Finkbeiner
Oh Jean I’m sorry for the loss of Jim I attended Ilderton united church I lived in Ilderton thinking about you and your for grief
Murray & Peggy Morrison
Jean
Thinking of you at this sad time and send our sincere condolences
Bernadette
I was so sorry to hear this news. I considered Jim a friend, and I loved our talks. I’ve missed him and had planned to visit soon – I’m sorry now that I didn’t go sooner. Jean, you’re in my thoughts and prayer’s.
Nancy and Bob Manning
Jean, sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. You have been an amazing caregiver and wife. May the adventures you shared bring many happy memories, in the coming days. RIP Jim.
Karen Z
Jim’s positive attitude and determination was an example and inspiration to many.
He was , without a doubt, one of the good guys and would probably be surprised at the number of lives he touched.
Jean and Jim made an extraordinary team!!
Wilma Van Bussel
Dear Jean and Stephen.
My sincere condolences on the passing of your dear husband and father.
I remember Jim as a soft-spoken, very friendly man who always had a smile and a person who had time for everyone.
May your memories sustain you now. If there is anything I can be of assistance with, please do not hesitate to contact me.
Wilma
Judy Bond
So sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences
Judy Bond
Jen Logan
Our sincere condolences to your family..your family is in our thoughts and prayers in this difficult time..