Passed away peacefully at Queensway Long Term Care Home on Tuesday, January 23, 2024 at the age of 92. Beloved wife of the late Ross Hodgert (2023) for 68 years. Cherished mother of Diane Ellis of Waterloo, and Alan and Michele Hodgert of RR 1 Woodham. Proud grandma of Christine Jakobsen; Alana Hodgert, Andrew and Britt Hodgert and Amanda Hodgert and great-grandma of Evelyn; Axton and Hayden. Dear sister-in-law of Ombra May of London, and Jean Hodgert of Exeter. Fondly remembered by many nieces and nephews. Predeceased by her parents Hedley and Alice May, her siblings and their spouses; Douglas and Marjorie, Murray May, and Marian Tinney and her in-laws Reg Hodgert, and Marion and Arnold Cann.
Kay was a dedicated member of the Eastern Star. For many years, she enjoyed her outings on the curling rink with her friends. She was a faithful member of the Thames Road United Church and was a part of the UCW. Kay was known far and wide for her chocolate angel food cake, especially at family picnics.
Visitation will be held at Haskett Funeral Home, 456 Main Street South, EXETER on Sunday from 3 – 6 PM, where Kay’s funeral service will be held on Monday, January 29th at 11 AM with Rev. Louise von Massow officiating. Interment Exeter Cemetery.
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Donations to Jessica’s House or a charity of your choice would be appreciated by the family.
Chuck and Val Ford
Diane, Alan, Michele and families,
Our condolences on the passing of Kay. May your wonderful memories help you through this difficult time.
John & Arlene Berendsen
Sorry to hear of your loss…Thinking of you all…Arlene & John Berendsen
George and Sue (Insley)Wilson
Diane, Alan, Michele and families, heartfelt condolences. Kay was a friendly, kind woman. She cared about everyone she met. Cherish your precious memories and hold them close to your heart.Your parents are together again. Love and prayers.
Joan Mitchell
Thoughts and prayers for comfort and that peace beyond understanding to each of you.
From Bill Allen and Joan Mitchell (nee Allen) . I can see Kay’s friendly and kind smile still.
Tinney Family
Diane, Alan, Michele and families, we are sorry to for your loss.
Aunt Kay was a wonderful lady who lived a wonderful life that she generously shared with her family and friends.
Love,
Darren, Nathalie, Ben and Meg
John & Sharon McNeilly
Sending sincere condolences on the passing of your Mother & Grandma. We first met your parents when John coached Al’s hockey team, then curling and eventually neighbours. They were such a nice couple, always interested in what the girls were doing. Sorry we were unable to attend the visitation, we were at the Ontario Curling playdowns, something your parents would have been most interested in. Thinking of all of you as you prepare to say goodbye to your mom.
Fred & Ann Zwaan
My sincere condolences to Alan, Michelle and family with the passing of your mother and grandmother.
She was a pleasant lady who always had time for a friendly conversation which always cheered me up, as well as my mother when she was still with us.
May God comfort you during this sad time. Fred & Ann Zwaan
Dorothy Stephen
My sympathy to Kathleen’s family.
May God ease your sorrow on the passing of another dear family member.
Take comfort in the fact that Ross and Kathleen are together again, and with the Lord.
Dorothy Stephen
Travis & Jill Robinson
Our deepest sympathies to you all.
Patty and Jim Carter
Alan and Michelle and family very sorry for your loss
Alma Ballantyne
To the Hodgert family,
So sorry for your loss. My sincerest sympathies.
Alma
Pete and Elaine Kosi
Sending the whole family our sincere condolences on your loss. She was a great neighbour to my parents in Exeter.
Gary and Kathy simpson
Allan, Michelle and family.
So sorry to read of Kay’s passing. Kay and Ross were a wonderful couple and cared for one another for a lot of years. It was my pleasure to visit with them for a time.
Faye and Larry Skinner
We send our condolences to the entire Hodgert family. Cherish the memories of a life well lived.
Ken and Margaret Caldwell
To all family members of Kay’s – Having gotten to know Kay when joining with Exeter Chapter of the OES, we all felt that Kay gave us an added welcome and kept up that spirit for these many years. She was always a good humoured lady which we all came to enjoy during her years with us. Rest in peace, Kay. Margaret
Larry Ballantyne/Sherrie Broderick
To the Family,
Sending sincere condolences for your loss.
Nancy Price
My sincere sympathies to you all at a sad time.
Nancy Price (Hern)…..
Donna Webster
Kay was a local member of the OES in Exeter. She held the position of secretary for many years. The books were in good hands.
May all your the good memories of Kay be of comfort to you in the coming days.
Donna
Scot Morgan and Judy Parsons
Diane, Al, Michele & entire Hodgert family
Sincere condolences on the passing of Kay. May you find comfort in your memories.
Bob and Joyce McDonald
Diane, Al, Michelle and families,
Our sincere sympathy on the loss of your, Mother, Grandmother and Great Grandmother. May all your memories comfort each of you in the days and months ahead.
Bob and Joyce McDonald
James Weston
Diane, Alan and Michele and families – Sincere sympathy in the loss of Kay. She and Ross were an amazing couple and will be together again.
Helen and Jim Weston
Kay Tripp
I offer my condolences to the Hodgert Families…Kay Tripp
Shirley Hewtt
A Friend to remember on this sad day . Kay you were always friendly and made us Aussies welcome and when you and Ross came to Australia for Cann/Hewitt wedding we all had a great time. It is so sad that we have to say farewell but I know you will always be remembered by your family and friends.. Farewell Kay…………Sympathy to all who mourn this day…Shirley Hewitt & Family
Marilyn, Brian & Victoria Stewart
Andrew, Britt and the Hodgert family so very sad to learn of the passing of your grandmother. Thinking of you all as you go through this time of mourning.
Sandra & Larry Hern
We extend our sympathy to all of Kay’s family on her passing. She was a faithful member of the Order of the Eastern Star, and I enjoyed sitting with her when she was able to attend the meetings, in spite of her loss of sight. May all your good memories spent together give you comfort and peace in knowing that she is now again with your dear Dad, Ross.
Darren Boyle
Our most kind condolences to the entire Hodgert family.
So many great memories and time spent chatting with her over the years as a neighbour and family friend.
She will leave a big hole in a lot of hearts.
Darren, Denise, Kayleigh & Sean Boyle
Karen Brock
My sincere condolences to you all for the passing of Kay. I enjoyed many visits with her through the years. May fond memories of her help you through this most difficult time.
Joyce Black
Thinking of all the Hodgert family and sending sincere sympathy in the passing of your Mother/Grandmother. May your memories bring you comfort at this sad time.
Powe family
Our deepest sympathy to all the Hodgert family. We will remember Kay’s warm smile and visits with Ross and Elmer.
Condolences from the Powe family. Alan, Elaine and Bruce, Marie and Ron and families
Craig & Andrea Alexander
Al, Michele & entire Hodgert family
Sincere condolences on the passing of Kay. May you find comfort in your memories and knowing that she has been reunited with Ross.
Craig & Andrea Alexander
Anne & Ted Kernick
We send our sincere sympathy to all of Kay’s family. Hopefully your memories are a comfort to you at this sad time.
Jim Chapman
Diane, Alan and Families ;
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of Kay !!
My deepest sympathy to all of you !
Many good memories of curling with and against Kay and Ross !
Brenda Miller-Sanford
My sincere condolences to Alan and Michele and family.
Brian and Janet Wedlake
Our condolences to the Hodgert family. As a neighbour of Ross and Kay there are many fond memories growing up next door on the farm.
Marjie Westerveld
So sorry to hear of Kay’s passing…my condolences to all of the family
The Tinney Family
Aunt Kay & Uncle Ross – one of the greatest love stories of all time.
Thinking of you all.
Rene, Harlen, Cole & Trent.
Carolyn Gower
Our deepest sympathy to all of the Hodgert family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Dan, Carolyn, Blake, Hannah and Kane Gower
Hayden
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.
Hayden & Sadie Cann
John & Carol Coleman
Dear Alan, Michele and family,
Sending out our heartfelt condolences to each of you. Kay’s spirit is now reunited with Ross, so hopefully that brings a smile at this sorrowful time. We have many fond memories of when we belonged to the Exeter Curling Club. Your parents were awesome competitors and would tease us about missed shots, all in good fun!
Dianne Faubert&Daryl Tripp
To all the family. Our hearts are with you. We are thinking of you. Deepest condolences.
Susan Moore
Diane and Alan and family: I have many memories of growing up down the road from Kay and Ross! Thinking of you all!
judy lovell
Hodgert Family
Our sincere sympathy to the Hodget family. Your parents were so proud of their family, especially the Grandchildren. They were so kind and caring to each other. My Mom had many good years, visiting with them over a cup of coffee at McDonalds. Hoping all the cherished memories with help you all through this difficult time.
Judy Lovell
Ethel Desjardine
Betty &Jim Deblock
Our deepest sympathies to all the family members. We were fortunate to have known them both , especially through curling. They are together again.
Ron-Karen Simpson
Dear Alan and Michelle and family, very sorry to her of the passing of your Mom and kids Grandma, you have our deepest of sympathy
Elaine Corbett
My deepest condolences to Kay’s family. Cherish your memories to help you through the days ahead!
Marg Prout
Condolences to all Kay’s family. As Kay grew up next to the
Prout farm she was always interested in what & just how everyone
was doing. May she now rest in peace. ❤️🩹
Dave Keys
Al, Michelle and family
So sorry to hear of Kay’s family. Our condolences goes out to the entire family.
Dave, Shelly and Rachelle Keys
Dave Frayne and Cathy Cade
To all of Kay’s family and friends
Sorry to learn of her passing, she is reunited with Ross.
Kay was a familiar person around the Exeter Curling Club and she was there to support Ross and Al, when she could no longer curl.
May your memories bring comfort to you in the future.
Our condolences
MaryJane Taylor
To the Hodgert and May Families
My Sincere Sympathy in your loss of Kay…..
She was such a nice lady with a lovely smile even though
she had lost her sight…she would recognize your voice.
May your fond memories comfort you at this sad time…..
Jeff Borland
Diane, Alan &Family
Sending our condolence in the loss of a good friend and neighbor for many years.
The Borland’s
Ken and Kim Pinder
Alan and Michele
We are sorry for the loss of your mom Kay. Our sincere condolences to you all. Keep her memories close to your heart.
Earl and Julia Martene
Alan, Michele and the Hodgert Family
Our condolences on your mother and grandmother’s passing. No matter how long our parents live, it is never long enough. Our thoughts are with you at this time of loss.
Earl and Julia Martene
Beth Cooper
My sincere sympathy to all of Kay’s family.
My thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Marion McCarter
Sincere sympathy to the Hodgert and May families as you mourn the loss of Kay. She has left you enormous memories which will now become treasures you will hold in your hearts forever.
Linda & Jerry Traquair
Sincere condolences to all who knew and loved Kay.
Dave Prout
Alan and all the Hodgert family
Condolences on the passing of Kathleen she always knew me by the sound of my voice when I would see her and Ross around town, a life well lived
Dave
Linda Dietrich
Alan, Michelle & Family,
So sorry for your loss, our deepest sympathy.
Tom and Carol Arthur
Our sincere sympathy to the Hodgert and May families. Our thoughts are with all of you.
Margaret Brintnell
Alan, Diane & All of your families.
Sorry to read about your Mom & Grandmother & Great Grandmother. Your Mom & Dad were so proud of everyone of you & loved to talk about the twins. So caring & kind to each other & so many years together. Wonderful Couple & Parents. Mom will be with Dad once again.
My Sympathy – Margaret Brintnell
Wanda Reynolds
Hodgert Family
My thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow.
Wanda Reynolds
Evelyn Vincent & Sim
Diane, Alan & Michelle
Sincere sympathy. You had a great mother but she was ready to go. Trusting all the good memories help bring peace and comfort
Elaine Ford
So sorry to learn of Kathleen’s passing. She was always a very active lady. Star hugs 🤗
Alice and Jerry MacLean
My goodness… 92years of age… what a long wonderful life she had. How fortunate for the family to have had her for all their lives.
Kay and Ross were always together when we saw them out and about the last few years, and now… together again. May they be blessed in their eternal home.
Family… we send our sympathies your way, knowing it’s hard to loose someone you love