At South Huron Hospital, Exeter on Tuesday, November 29th, 2011 of Exeter in his 85th year. Beloved husband of Marian (Glanville) Penhale. Dear father of Gary (Gar) Penhale, Kathy Penhale both of Exeter and Norma and Ken MacLeod of Port Elgin. Dear grandfather of Lia. Predeceased by his sisters Helen Kerr, Jean Ellerington and Shirley Colby and brothers Harry, Bill and James Penhale.
Friends are invited to a gathering at the Exeter Lions Den (old Scout hall) on 135 John Street West, Exeter on Saturday, December 3rd from 1-4 PM to celebrate Tom’s life. Cremation with interment Exeter Cemetery.
Donations to Adopt-a-Pet (Pet Rescue), Lucknow or the Heart and Stroke Foundation would be appreciated by the family.
Delma Penhale Williamson
Since condolences from Penhale family in Toronto.
Delma williamson
My sincere apology for mot sending my thoughts and prayers earlier to you Marian and all.
While researching our Penhale family tree I have just been told of Tom s passing.
Our Penhale reunion in 1988 certainly was a great event. My father Jack and his MotherJean Marie “Penny” Penhale were noth lost that same year.
Regards
Delma Penhale Williamson
Paul & Beth Anstett
To the Penhale family,
We are very sorry to hear of the passing of Thomas. May your many memories comfort you in your sorrow.
With sympathy,
Paul & Beth Anstett & Family
laura beck hogg
so sorry gar to hear about your father.
Jullie, Kim and Morgan:
Dear Marion, Gar, Norma, Ken, Leah and Kathy:
Our deepest sympathies to all of you. Can’t imagine Exeter without your dad Kathy. He was a kind and gentle soul!
Sincerely;
Jullie, Kim and Morgan
Marilyn and Al Paquin
Aunt Marion, Gar, Norma and Kathy and families
So sorry to hear of uncle Tom’s passing, our thoughts are with
you and family. I have memories as a kid going to Gramma and
Grampa’s and Tom having is radio on playing the beautiful 40’s
music and when he and Marion were married. He will truly be
missed as a husband, father and grandfather. There always has
been a love of dogs in the family so not surprised at one of his
last wishes.
Marilyn, Al, Michele and Jeff and families.
Marilyn, Al, Michele, Jeff and families.
Douglas Penhale and family
Dear Marion and family:
Our family would like to send our condolences at this sad time. It has been many years since our last visit to Exeter, but we have thought of you over the years. Unfortunately we never managed to see Tom again – life is so short. I will always remember going fishing with Tom to Chesley Lake. Thank you Gar for welcoming us to your establishment and showing us such warm hospitality. Our thoughts are with you all at this time of sorrow.
Douglas, Carol, Christina and Sarah Penhale
Sharon Klein
Dear Marion and family – I opened the paper today and read this very sad news! When I worked at Exeter Dental Care, Tom and Sam often greeted me at the beginning of the day with a smile from both! Regardless of the weather conditions, he would take Sam for his daily walk. He was such a positive man, and his smile was contagious! My deepest sympathy to all of you, and may you rest assure he and Sam are once again walking together with the wind in their back and the sun on their faces! Love, Sharon
Scot Morgan and Judy Parsons
Marion, Gar, Kathy, Norma and family.
Our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. Cherish your wonderful memories.
Tracy Gilfillan - MacVicar
Please accept my deepest sympathies. May the good memories shared help you through this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Tracy Gilfillan-MacVicar
Mike and JoAnne Pickering
Marion, Gary , Kathy and Norma, we are sending you our deepest sympathies on the loss of you husband, father and grandfather. Lossing a loved one is never easy but the memories you must have over the many years will help you in the future. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike JoAnne and Rebecca
Vicky Parent
Cathy & Family
Thinking of you during this difficult time.
The Staff and Board from Huron Safe Homes for Youth
Judy Hansen
I want to say how sorry I am for the loss of a husband, father and grandfather, so my sympathies to the Penhale family.
Brenda Kipfer
Dear Marion, Gar, Kathy, Norma and family,
I was very saddened to hear of Tom’s passing. He was a great father and husband. He had an amazing smile and a great sense of humour and he brought a smile to the face of everyone he met. I have many fond memories of Tom. He will certainly be missed. I hope the many memories you have will help you through this difficult time. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Brenda Kipfer
Buck Beer
Gar, Marion & Family
Very sorry to hear about Tom’s passing. I many, many fond memories of him….from being around the house, and road trips in Gar’s van. He was truly a nice guy.
-Buck
Tom and Nancy Hartai
Gar and family;
Please accept our deepest condolences at this difficult time. Tom was a great man. I will miss our long conversations…especially the “tall fishing tales” that we both shared!
Tom Hartai
Marg and Ross Beaver
Dear Marion,Gary, Kathy, Norma and family,
We where very saddened to hear of Tom’s passing. He will be
greatly missed
Please accept our sincerest condolences and know that you are
in our thoughts at this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Ross & Marg
Gord and Wendy Miller
Dear Marion and family
We were so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. Your family certainly have had their share of sorrow lately. Keep the good memories as we are sure there were many, Thinking of you. Gord and Wendy
Sherrie Thomson
My deepest sympathies are with you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Michael and Jody Boyle
Marion,Gar Norma, Kathy I want to express my sincerest sympathy in a time of great loss. I will always regard Tom as a friend, a man I’ve known from when I was 15, who I worked with, but more importantly laughed with. Tom had a wit and wisdom and that is the thing I will most miss, as I shop without the possibility of a meeting to reminence of days at the Canners.
Bonnie Baynham
Dear Marion, Kathy, Norma, Ken, Lia, and Gar
I am sending my deepest condolences to all of you. Such a deep and sad loss for all of you. So many of us share such beautiful and fond memories of Tom and all of you. Heartfelt thoughts
Bonnie xo
Jim Oesch
Big Gar,Kathy and Norma and familys
Sorry for your loss of your father,,,fishermen can be replaced,,but your father can’t,,Keep his ,and your memory’s of him alive,,
My thoughts and prayers are with you guy’s..
Jim
Maggie Brennan
Dear Marion, Gar, Norma, Kathy and Lia – I was so saddened to hear of the loss of your dear husband, father, grandfather. Tom’s smiling face, and quick whit will always be my memory.
Our thoughts are with you all at this difficult time.
Maggie Brennan and Stewart Turner
Mike & Deb Hunter
The entire Penhale Family,
We were so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. He was such a sweet guy. Our thoughts are with you. Take care of each other. Love, Mike & Deb
Tim & Cherie Rowcliffe
Thinking of you with sympathy and the hope that time will bring comfort to your heart…God Bless
HAROLD KUMM
HI
IM VERY SORRY ABOUT THE BAD NEW ABOUT TOUR DAD
PASSING AWAY MY HEART GOES OUT THE WHOLE FAMLIY
IT WAS PETRA THAT TOLD ME ON DEC.O1 PLEASE TRY TO HELP THE WHOLE FAMLIY AND KEEP THEM ALL TOEGTHER
PLEASE AND THANK-YOU
AND IF YOU LIKE TO THE FAMLIY MY EMAIL ADDRESS YOU CAN HERE IT IS
dale_earn_heart@hotmail.com ALSO IM ON THE FACE BOOK
JUST PUT THIS IN OK HAROLD KUMM AND IT WILL COME UP
HAROLD KUMM
George McEwan, Beth Ronson, Charlotte, Sara, and Sam
Tom was such a happy part of our lives while we lived around the corner. We’re so sorry to hear about his passing. He was a terrific man and we will miss him very much.
Craig & Andrea Alexander
Mrs. Penhale, Gar, Kathy, Norma & family
Our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. Cherish your wonderful memories and know he will live on in your hearts.
Sincerely,
Craig, Andrea, Garrett & Luke Alexander
Liz Campbell( Giffin)
My deepest sympathy to you all, on your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely
Liz
Ross and Marlene Mathers
Dear Marion and Family: Our sincere sympathy on the loss of a dear husband and father. He was a wonderful man. Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Doug Fletcher
It was with sadness that I read of Toms passing.
I remember seeing his smiling face in the warehouse at the canners and sitting on the porch when I dropped into see Gar.
My condolences to the entire family.
Fletch
Susan Flatman
Kathy, Aunt Marian, Geary, Norma, Ken and Lia, our family loving thoughts are with you all. Reading the other offerings only reinforces our fleeting impressions of Uncle Tom, a warm, kind man with a great sense of humor, how much better does it get? Obviously he enriched us all.
with tender love from Sue& David (Colby Flatman) Peter, Andrea Paul and Claire (Colby)
Judy & Gerard Grenier & family
Marion, Gar, Kathy, Norma & Family
Thinking of you at this difficult time. Tom was a very special man & will never be forgotten.
Sincere Sympathy
Gerard & Judy, Jen, Jason & Miranda
Tina Riley -Ankers
As of love.unt Marion ,Gar, Kathy and Norma and Family
I am so sorry to hear of uncle Tom’s passing he will missed by so many people and loved by just as many. He always took the time to stop and talk to me when he seen me even if he was on a schedule . You are all in my thoughts and prayers and lots of hugs and lot of love.
Love Tina , Brad , Kara, Dannika ,Hailie and Darlene.
R.I.P.Uncle Tom and be free from any pain now.
Sherry Degraw
Marion and Geary,
I,m so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Karen & Randy Stanlake
Our hearts are with you all at this difficult time. May you find some peace in the celebration of his life.
The Middletons
Marion, Gar, Kathy, Norma and families….we were shocked to hear of Tom’s passing. Our sincere and heartfelt thoughts are with all of you in the passing of a life-long friend. Timmie will be sadly missed by all. Gary remembers the days working side-by-side at the canning factory where the two of you met and fishing up at Silver and Chesley Lakes. Me, stopping to chat when I was out walking our dog. ***hugs*** to all of you in this time of sorrow.
Gary, Jo-Ann & Marshall
Oral and Laurie Knox
We were so sorry to here of Tom’s passing. Know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. I will forever cherish the memories of our trips to fish on Big Lake, with Tom and Gar.
Oral and Laurie
Claire and Winona Hoffman
Gar and all the Penhale family
So sorry to hear about the loss of Tom ,Husband ,Father,etc
Our heart and prayers are with you at this sad time..God Bless.
Winona worked for many years with Tom at the Canners.,
Claire,Winona Hoffman and Family..
Rick and Beth Webber
Our sincerst condolences on the passing of a wonderful man.
Rick and Beth Webber (Oral Knox’s step daughter)
Elaine Baynham
Dear Marian Gar Norma and Kathy. Our deepest sympathy to all of you, Tom was a good man and will be missed by many. Sincerely, Elaine, Steve Brad and Bonnie
Tena McKay
Deeply saddened to hear that Tom has passed on. I cannot imagine not seeing Tom walking from the grocery store or back from Kathy’s with the lawn mower. I will miss tooting the horn at him and waving.
To Marion, Gary, Norma and Kathy….our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Thanks for being the loving family that you are and always having an open door to me over the years.
Sincerely yours, Tena (DeKoker) McKay and Jeff
Marlyn Wein
Dear Marion, Gary, Kathy, Norma, Ken and Lia
I am so very sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. I have many fond memories of visiting your home… the endless laughs we all shared and the welcoming warmth felt when greeted at your door.
My deepest sympathy to all the family
Marlyn Wein
Bill&Grace Gilfillan
Marion,Gar, Norma,Kathy,Ken&Lia.
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of a
Dear Husband ,Dad &Grandpa.
May your treasured memories help you through this sad time.
Bill$Grace
Dave Frayne and Cathy Cade
Marion, Gar, Kathy,Norma and family
We were saddened to learn of Tom’s passing. He was a familair sight walking down Main St on some errand and always had time to talk. He will be in your hearts and minds forever.
Sherrie Broderick
Dear Penhale Family
May this time of sadness be quickly replaced with comfort from a long lifetime of cherished memories.
My deepest sympathy for your loss.
Sherrie Broderick
george gallant
So sorry for your loss….my condolences to all you.
sincerely,
George Gallant
Kevin and Kim Hern
Marion, Gar, Kathy and Norma, We are so very sorry to hear about Tom. We have many happy memories of him. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs to all! Love from Kim, Kevin, Kelsey and Jake.
Ron and Glenda Lindenfield
Gary and Family
So sorry to hear the sad news, keep all those good memories in your heart, keep strong………..
Karen Brown
Marion, please accept my condolences. I have memories of lovely little chats with both of you when I walked with Reba past your home. I hope that all of your wonderful memories will give strength to you and your family during this difficult time.
ena de haan
Dear Kathy ,
So sorry to read that your dad passed away, I know how much he meant to you.
your mom willl miss him terribly as will all of you.
Leslie Knight
Dear Mrs. Penhale, Gar, Norma and Kathy:
I’m sorry for your loss. I will always remember Tom (your husband and Dad) for coming to Kathy’s house at all hours to help us get rid of bats. Kathy and I would hide behind a door while sending Tom in to get the bats alone. Thank goodness for all the memories you have to hold close to your hearts. Kind regards, Leslie Knight
Willy, Shallon, Jakob and Sydnee Partridge
Marion, our thoughts are with you. We are sorry for your loss.
Patti Stanley and Ross Alexander
Marion and Family.
Sorry to hear about Tom’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I will miss his visits and the chats we had at the store.
Carol Neaves & Charlie Beausoleil
Our sincerest condolence to Marion and Family.
No matter when you went on Main St. you would see Tom, on is way or coming from the grocery store, it must have taken him a long time for to do this simple chore, because everyone would stop and talk to him.
We moved to Exeter 25 year ago and was lucky enough to get to know Tom from working at the Cannimg Factory.
Carol & Charlie
Mike and Darlene Stewart
We are very saddened to hear of Tom’s passing. He was a wonderful spirit, and had a friendly smile for all he met. Our deepest sympathy to all the family.
Mike, Darlene (Sillery), Carly, and Kaycee Stewart
Scott and Katie Nixon
Dear Penhale Family,
Scott and I wish to send you our deepest and most heartfelt sympathies regarding Tom. We feel honoured to have met and known him and to have shared in his wonderful spirit and sense of humour during his life. He will be greatly missed by the Exeter community.
With Warmest Regards,
Katie and Scott Nixon
Brion, Sherry and Austin Penhale
Marion, Gar, Norma ,Kathy, Ken and Lia
How fortunate to have the best Husband, Dad and Grandpa one
could ask for. So many fond memories and LOTS of great laughs.
How we now long to go back in time for a big Porch Party again
,the memory of those times will never be forgotten.
Love Brion, Sherry and Austin Penhale
Sharon, Jim, Eva-Marie, and Nolan Allison
Dear Marion, Gary, Kathy, Norma, Ken and Lia,
So sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. We will all miss him a lot, especially Eva-Marie and Nolan.
Sending you all of our love during this sad time.
Sharon, Jim, Eva-Marie,and Nolan.
noreen riley-smith
I am shocked beyond as well as i know you guys are.uncle tom was a great guy.i remember walking to the store with him and he would say what kind of cereal do you want nipper.and i would say captain crunch.he always said aunt marion said shredded wheats,he spoiled me just like you did aunt marion.sleeping over with you guys was great.a lot of good times ,aybe cause she guys spoiled me.geary,norma and kathy were big siblings.walking down the street will never be the same again.no more hey nipper whipper or becareful nipper i just made that twenty when came in to pickup pizza.love you guys with all my heart and soul.RIP Uncle Tom.dont wear out those angel boots
Pete and Wendy Case
Marion, Gar, Kathy, Norma and family;
So sorry to hear the news. May your cherished memories help you all, through this difficult time.
Sincerely, Pete and Wendy
Evelyn Steckle Vincent
Kathy,
Sincere sympathy to your in your time of great loss. May you experience comfort.